My father grew up in Soochow, China; my mother came from Columbus, Kansas. Improbable as it seems even to me, they married in Chicago in 1946 and became my parents. I grew up in St. Louis in the 50’s, without air conditioning or TV, and with the radio on. The Cardinals game was going, it seemed, all summer; Chuck Berry was the real King of Rock ‘n’ Roll. Ray Charles played Kiel Auditorium once a year and for that evening racism was suspended, inside the hall. During my childhood, a milkman drove up the alley with the milk on ice in his truck; fathers burned trash in ashpits; a man towing a wagon appeared on our block, in season, and called “StrawBERRIES, red raspBERRIES!” I remember having a “colored school” pointed out to me. I seldom saw a Chinese, or Asian, person except my father, thought of myself as white (though I was teased for looking Chinese), and didn’t realize that I was acquiring an upbringing other Americans didn’t have. It was easy not to notice: besides bacon and eggs, what my father cooked was fried chicken.

Lowry Pei. Photo by Vaugh Sills.

I had two mentally retarded brothers whose existence rendered our family life still more peculiar than it would have been anyway.

I went to Harvard because my father, whose attitude toward education was as Chinese as it gets, wouldn’t hear of my applying anywhere else. I was an English major, a fan of jazz, Motown, and the Beatles. I tried to write poetry for a number of years before I figured out I couldn’t (I may have finally changed my mind about that). I was a conscientious objector during Vietnam, worked in a lab putting tubes inside rats and bats, and got a Ph.D. in English at Stanford, but instead of becoming a straight-up English prof I became a writing teacher, and remained one throughout my working life.

In 1975 I got an unaccountable urge to write a novel, perhaps imagining it would do something for a broken heart. I had written a 300-page Ph.D. dissertation, and since that proved I could write something the length of a novel, why not go for it? Almost at once I discovered that although I had spent years studying novels, I knew nothing about how to make one. My first attempt was not even fiction, just a slice of autobiography with the names changed. About three years into my learning process, Kathryn Marshall, the author of My Sister Gone, was kind enough to read my manuscript and told me I should try rewriting it in first person instead of third. That might have been the single most potent piece of writing advice I ever received. In first person there was no evading what I had to do: if I was going to write something I could, even for a moment, call fiction, the narrator, who was necessarily the central character, had to be distinctly and explicitly not me. From that, everything followed. Eventually I wrote the manuscript of a novel which, if not terribly good, was what it claimed to be. After about six years of work I finally had a clue about how to write fiction.

In the end I wrote eight novels, the first of which, Family Resemblances, was published in 1986 by Random House (Vintage Contemporary, 1988). The last of them is Vinita Park, which I finished in 2016. I had a story in Best American Short Stories 1984 (“The Cold Room”), and one in The American Story: The Best of StoryQuarterly (“Naked Women”). I’ve published half a dozen short stories, some non-fiction (essays, memoirs, criticism), and some book reviews, including two in the New York Times Book Review.

I’ve taught literature, expository writing, memoir, and fiction writing, and I’ve been lucky enough to work with some very talented people. In essence what I teach is the writing of narratives, which, when you dig deep enough into it, becomes a way of life. My first teaching job was one year at the University of Missouri, before I had a Ph.D., that convinced me I wanted to be a writing teacher. After that I taught at UC San Diego (four years), Harvard’s Expository Writing Program (seven years), and from 1985 to 2019, at Simmons College.

I live in Cambridge, Massachusetts; my wife, Vaughn Sills, is a photographer who also taught at Simmons. Between us we have three sons, two prior marriages, two houses (the other in Prince Edward Island), one garden, and much to do. I keep on trying to make art any way I can, which now takes the form of soundpieces, or sound & image works.

For more about some of this, see the “Memoirs and Personal Essays” on this website, or the non-fiction parts of For Adam.

Publication List


  • Family Resemblances (Random House, 1986)
      (published in England by Pan Books, 1987)
      (Vintage Contemporary paperback, 1988)


  • “Barranca, King of the Tree Streets,” Edges, ed. Ursula K. Le Guin and Virginia Kidd (Pocket Books, 1980)
  • “The Cold Room,” Stories #4, March-April 1983 (reprinted in The Best American Short Stories 1984, edited by John Updike with Shannon Ravenel)
  • “No Kick from Champagne,” The Ohio Review #32, 1984
  • “Naked Women,” StoryQuarterly #20, 1985
    (reprinted in The American Story: The Best of StoryQuarterly, Cane Hill Press, 1990)
  • “Vital Signs,” Writer’s Bar-B-Q, Autumn 1987
  • “Meditation on Bangs,” Imagine Vol. II, No. 2, 1990
  • “Is This Love?” (opening chapters of The Education of Peter Obata), in Above Ground: An Anthology of Living Fiction, ed. J. L. Morin (New York: Harvard Square Editions, 2009).

Essays and Memoirs

  • “On Love and Space,” Missouri Review Vol. X, No. 2. April 1987
  • “Why Fiction, Why Criticize?” in How Writers Teach Writing, ed. Nancy Kline (Prentice-Hall, 1992)
  • “Country Places,” Southwest Review, Vol. 78, No. 3, summer 1983.
  • “Essay and Story, Essay as Story,” in What Do I Know?: Reading, Writing and Teaching the Essay, ed. Janis Forman (Heinemann, 1996)
  • “Elusive Powers,” Many Mountains Moving, Winter 1996
  • “Fox on the Shore,” Ecotone, Fall 2007
  • “Past, Present and Future on the Little River,” newsletter of Belmont Citizens Forum, summer 2008, reprinted in “Growing Up in North Cambridge,” 2012
  • “Introduction” to Places for the Spirit: Traditional African American Gardens, by Vaughn Sills (Trinity University Press, 2010)

Literary Criticism

  • The Duke’s Children: Reflection and Reconciliation,” Modern Language Quarterly, September 1978
  • “Mirrors, the Dead Child, Snagsby’s Secret, and Esther,” English Language Notes, December 1978
  • “‘Poor Singletons’: Definitions of Humanity in the Stories of James Tiptree, Jr.,” Science-Fiction Studies, November 1979
  • “Dreaming the Other in The Golden Apples,” Modern Fiction Studies, Autumn 1982
  • “Eudora Welty’s The Golden Apples,” Post Road no. 13, 2006
  • Murakami’s Farewell to Despair Public Books, Jan. 15, 2016.
  • “Murakami’s Story of Trying to Understand,” Northwest Review of Books, July 2017.
  • “Murakami Haruki, the Inner Life, and the ‘Other Side’,” Japan Studies Association Journal, November 2017.


  • The Novel-Machine: The Theory and Fiction of Anthony Trollope, by Walter M. Kendrick, reviewed in Modern Language Quarterly, September 1980
  • Cold Spring Harbor, by Richard Yates, reviewed in New York Times Book Review, October 5, 1986
  • Best American Short Stories 1986, ed. Raymond Carver with Shannon Ravenel, reviewed in Boston Review, December 1986
  • Five Hundred Scorpions, by Shelby Hearon, reviewed in New York Times Book Review, May 10, 1987
  • Continent, by Jim Crace, reviewed in Boston Review, August 1987
  • The Gift of Stones, by Jim Crace, reviewed in Boston Review, August 1989